Kids Who Struggle With Getting Dressed: Sensory Discomfort

For a child, getting dressed means taking in many sensations all at once. If your child runs away, cries, or digs in their heels every time it's time to change, and every morning feels like a battle, it may be worth looking at their senses before assuming stubbornness.

What does your child feel while getting dressed?

The fabric against their skin, the part of the shirt that slides over their neck, the seams in their socks, a clothing tag brushing against them. Things adults barely notice can feel like a lot to a child. Kids who struggle with getting dressed often show signs like these:

• Wants to wear only certain clothes
• Keeps taking their socks off
• Dislikes clothing tags
• Takes an unusually long time to get dressed
• Refuses new clothes

Look first at the discomfort behind the refusal

If you only look at the refusal, it can seem like stubbornness. But your child may be reacting in a way that helps them avoid discomfort. Instead of "Why don't you like it again?", try asking first, "What feels uncomfortable?" Once you start to understand what's bothering your child, getting dressed can gradually become easier.

Last reviewed: 2026-10-07 This article provides general information only. Your child's developmental status and treatment plan are determined through consultation and assessment.