The Child Who Insists on Pushing the Shopping Cart

Some children grab the shopping cart the moment they walk into the store, shouting "I'm pushing it!" If an adult offers to push instead, they push back with "No, I'll do it!" and refuse to give in.

What Children Experience While Pushing a Cart

Pushing a shopping cart isn't just about fun. As children push with both hands, lean their body forward, and steer, they're getting all kinds of experience using their body. Here's what parents often describe:

• Has to push the shopping cart themselves
• Keeps pushing even when it's heavy
• Doesn't like it when someone else holds the handle
• Gets upset when not allowed to push

It may look like stubbornness, but it may be a wish to really use their body. For a child, grocery shopping is play and a time to learn. Within safe limits, give them a chance to push the shopping cart themselves. It's also worth noticing what your child wants to do first when you get to the store.

Last reviewed: 2026-10-07

This article provides general information only. Your child's developmental needs and treatment plan are determined through consultation and assessment.