When Your Child Asks the Same Question Over and Over

You answer "Where are we going today?" and a moment later it's "Where are we going today?" again, followed by "What time are we going?" and "What do we do after that?" With a child who keeps asking the same question, "I just told you!" can slip out before you know it.

Why do children repeat the same question?

It isn't only because they don't know the answer. When it's hard to predict what's coming, such as going somewhere new, a change in plans, or having to wait, children may check information they've already heard as a way to get ready emotionally.

Give your child a way to check for themselves

Instead of repeating the answer every time, set up tools your child can use to check on their own.

• Connect back to the earlier conversation: "Like we talked about, today we're going to ○○."
• Look at a picture schedule together to see the order of the day
• Ask, "What do we do after ○○?" so your child can recall it themselves
• Let them know ahead of time when plans change

The goal isn't to make the questions stop. Learning how to check when they're wondering about something is itself important practice for your child.

Last reviewed: 2026-10-07 This article provides general information. Your child's developmental needs and treatment plan are determined through consultation and assessment.